During class, we talked a lot about how important someone’s pronouns are. As someone who has seen friends be called wrong pronouns or go through telling people they have begun using different pronouns, I understand how important this can be for anyone. Even I try my best to use they/their/them with anyone I may not be 100% sure what their pronouns may be. I think this is an important thing for everyone to adapt as we go into this time where people become more comfortable with using any pronouns they choose.

I think another important thing brought up in class is if you accidentally use the wrong pronouns for someone, that you should apologize and correct yourself and move on and remember that for next time. It is better to be aware of your mistake rather than be super defensive about it or making a huge deal over it.

It is way better to ask than to assume what someone identifies as. For example, I am an RA in an all girls floor, however, that doesn’t mean there isn’t someone who identifies differently living there. That is why I sent out a form asking everyone’s preferred name and pronouns that way later on I can prepare for this with activities I may do in the hall.

One thing that I felt was interesting to learn about is those who are transgender and change their name, they do not refer to it as “birth name” but refer to it as “dead name”. This was something I wasn’t aware of and I am glad I am now that way I can be respectful to anyone that is transgender.

A lot of people may think that this isn’t a big deal, but if you’re not the one in that position, you can decide that for them. It is easier to be aware and accommodating rather than be disrespectful and argue with someone over their identity.